I agree, the T is a useful tool and the only one's I regret are the those I didn't give (early in career). You will develop your own level of tolerance and if you continue to officiate the same locale, the coaches will figure out what you will tolerate as well. I usually give the coach a warning (ie stop sign, verbal) unless personal or profane. Each of us has their own level of BS we are willing to listen to and you will figure it out.
Hang in there
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