Congratulations on your first T! You never forget your first!
A "T" is just another tool in your kit bag that helps you control the game. Once you issue one, they become easier as now you know what YOUR tolerance level is and how to use the "T". Don't dwell on it, it's just another game management tool. Everyone's has a slightly different tolerance level.
But, comments about you or your partner personally or questions about your integrity should be "almost" automatic.