Well when I have a son (I'm 15), I will not put them somewhere or in a situation they did not earn. What does it teach them for you to put them on a team where they know they don't belong? Are you going to do this for them their whole life? And in no way is this a matter of making your son feel "inadequate." It merely teaches them that they will have to earn and work or everything in life, and that daddy won't be there forever.
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