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emaxos, the key in what you posted is "I do it in a mostly respectful way". Some do, and they are welcomed to question. In every pregame I state if you wish to question a call, ask for time and we will talk. Those who show no respect are the ones who give coaches a "bad name". I have had few of the "bad" types this season, but they are the ones who stick in your mind. I realize that respect works both ways, and I try and act as such. Ther are a few "bad" umpires, and they also stick in your mind. That was then, this is now, play ball, is the best answer.
CecilOne, I also call with the mrs., and have a daughter who calls also. Yes there are some (men usually) who act as if a female cant call softball. I dont understand how they can play, but are not credible enough to call. As for calling with the wife, they are the easist games I have had. After living together for 23 years, we communicate very well, reverse each others calls? no, nor would we reverse any other partners calls. Differ in opinions? yes, for 23 years, but the coaches/players/fans wont know it, nor would they with any other partner. Not all umpires I have worked with adhere, but if the crew is divided, it will be a bad night at the ball park!
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