[QUOTE=RookieDude;911118]I am sincere when I say it is good to know someone with your experiences in these matters are like minded.
...and since you are an "expert", let me run a few more "procedures" by you for handling the OP.
I am not an “expert”…I just know what works for me.
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1) Special Player starts running around with the ball...after a time when it starts to feel uncomfortable...look hard for some kind of foul/violation i.e. 3-seconds...."TWEET" other team gets the ball, Special player is not at "fault".
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I am not EVER comfortable doing something “tricky” or deceptive…even for a good cause. I prefer calling what was agreed upon in the pre-game meeting with the coaches.
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2) "TWEET"..."grant" a TO request to Coach A. Explain in your pre-game meeting that if the traveling gets too bad..."you are going to want a TO."  |
If I understand what you’re saying…I would be determining when a timeout is called and granted for Coach A. That has the potential to put me at odds now with BOTH coaches. In addition, doing that could give the appearance that I am no longer an impartial participant.
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3) "TWEET"...inadvertant whistle...Team A gets ball for TI and maybe a new "ball handler".
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Again, deceptive (saying whistle was inadvertent and it’s not)…and never a good idea.
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4) He!! with it...just nail the kid with the travel like you would any other 8th grade B player.
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Too heartless…
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5) Do it like "Dan" did it.
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Sorry, I don’t know who Dan is.
I guess the best way to put it is this. If both coaches can come to an agreement that certain accommodations in how strictly the rules will be enforced...then I will do my best to comply. For the most part I will not be setting aside any rules...nor will I be taking on any of the coaches responsibilities.
It's a balancing act...with no net. And I'm trying to get the coaches and all the kids all to the other side safely..