This is a pre-game issue with me. This is one of those plays that usually happens to the Lead. I tell my partner if I don't see who it goes out on I will crack the whistle, raise the hand and give them the "deer in the headlights" look. At that point I want to see a direction if you know, if you don't give the jump ball and we are going to the arrow. Work for me.
As far as Paul from Seattle although I have never actually worked with him I can concure with his quote.
"This has worked, even though I live most of my life with a dumb look on my face..."