I didn't see the game or the play in question, but I agree that it could not have been a FT attempt if no official administered it. It's possible that it could've been ruled a delay. We've also discussed the possibility of calling this a "practice" shot, which is prohibited.
But whatever it was, if the official didn't bounce or hand the ball to the player, it was not a FT attempt.
By the way, this is post number
2,000 for me! Woo-hoo!
I really need to get a life! 
Chuck