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I hear you, but just like the regular season... I don't write em I just enforce em.
Most summer leagues don't have player fouls around here & some players, usually the younger ones think they can commit over the top fouls without consequences.
Coaches wrote this rule & have NEVER given me a problem.
If a coach were to say "no" Id go with a T.
We also have rules that say if a player receives a T he must sit for 3 full game minutes.

I'm sure you know that officiating is not just about making calls, we must run the game & coaches don't run my ballgames.

FTR, if I whack a kid & he "carries on" I'm not going to coach! His a$$ is done for the evening, point blank period!