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			Drake,
 Don't abandon your nice-guy philosophy, just insert appropriate limits.  Ushering the coach back to his box without stopping the game is acceptable, and if he keeps violating, so is a T.  His comment about "am I bothering the game" would have led to an auto-WHACK the next time if I had been in your spot.  But you were there, and you had a feel for the game.
 
 Officiating without coming off as "officious" is a valuable tool, stay with it.  It's that mix of nice + firm that we're all looking for.
 
				__________________HOMER:  Just gimme my gun.
 CLERK: Hold on, the law requires a five-day waiting period; we've got run a background check...
 HOMER: Five days????  But I'm mad NOW!!
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