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Originally Posted by freddie_g2001
At halftime, I tactfully said, and in a polite way, I said, "partner, If you would just slow down a bit and referee the result of the play, Some of the fouls you might not have to call. He got very Defensive and Actually got Upset and felt he was being talked down to.
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Us referees can be a sensitive bunch at times. Perhaps you could've worded it differently?
I'm learning to start with myself (whether its true or not) which makes it easier for others to open up & talk about their miscues.
"How do
you feel about
our consistency as a
crew?
I know that
I need to slow down a bit & referee the result of the contact,
I could've saved a couple of fouls. What do
you think?"
Some nights we have to trick partners into getting on the same page. And on those other nights... savor the moment!!