Doesn't mean we're fighting, dude. It's called arguing a point and we do it all the time here.
And yes, you did spin it. No one has advocated calling "the tap on the back or arm when the dribbler has clearly passed the defender," or "let the defense stop the clock by calling everything."
We advocate that:
1 - The NFHS, NCAA, FIBA, and the NBA all recognize that strategic fouling is part of the game of basketball.
2- When you know the defense is trying to commit a strategic foul, call the first significant contact so that the contact doesn't escalate.
Finally, don't call me sir.