#1 - I agree with those who DO NOT tell the players what color the OOB line is. I do see it as an issue.
#2 - I, too, use "sportswomanship" with girls. They seem to like it.
#3 - For heavens sake, please don't ask if anyone is wearing contacts or tell them "we're going to call..."
Captains
Shake everyone's hand.
I'm Mr. Haire, this is Mr. Chambers, and Mr. Elias.
Who's the speaking captain for blue?
Who's the speaking captin for white?
Good sportsmanship.
Good luck!
Coach
Shake hands.
Coach, are all of tyour players properly equipped?
Are you going to help us promote good sportsmanship?
Good luck, coach.
That's it.