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		| Originally posted by Rich Fronheiser These days I encourage coaches to use my first name and talk to me --
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 I have no problem with coaches or players addressing me in a respectful manner any time I have a chance.  But if one coach is calling me by my first name and the other coach doesn't know me from Adam, I tell the "familiar" coach the first chance I get, "hey coach, please call me ref."  The old saying goes "perception is reality" and I don't want the other coach to incorrectly think that the "familiar coach" is getting reffed by his best buddy.
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