- What is your role to those officials?
- Are you a partner?
- Are you an evaluator with the state or organization?
- Do you know the officials?
- Did they ask for your advice or evaluation?
I personally would only say something to an official if I knew them or if I was in a position to evaluate. For example if I was in our association's observer program and I was at a game to specifically observe an official in our organization. If I have never met an official or did not know them at all and they did not ask for my opinion I would leave it alone. One of these plays you referenced was a judgment call; the other was a rule that I would not get all upset about being missed especially at a non-high school event.
Peace