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[QUOTE]Originally posted by sportswriter

:There's a trap here, of becoming nothing but a law-abiding arbiter without passion or feel for the game.


I don't think that this was Mike's intention, Sportwriter. Few contend that we should call every foul and not have a passion or feel for the game.

I belive the disagreement is on how involved an official should get in "coaching" the kids. At youth level, it's a fact that the kids need coaching. However, I think we cross a fine line when we take on the responsibility of coaching. Sure, we all do some of this, but my preference is to go to the coach and explain what's going on. This helps him assume his responsibility of leadership and hopefully benefits the WHOLE TEAM, not just the one player. And the coach might learn a little bit in the process.

And, although as an R, if a youth game is lopsided and a coach is passing the ball, I will visit him between plays and encourage more conservative play. If he doesn't comply, then there might be a bit more yellow on the field.

I believe these actions support our passion for the game without being "law-abiding arbiters"!