Okay, let's face it. I did a lousy job. It was a rough game and I never really felt in control. Fortunately, I had a very good partner, who bailed me out of a couple of bad jams. But even he thought I wasn't doing well, although he was too kind to say so. The coaches weren't happy, and for once they were right. About the only good thing I did was that I was equally lousy for both teams. (The parents didn't think so... )
My question is, what do you do to recover from a slam-in-the-confidence? Let me re-phrase the question. I'm not asking, "What should I do?" I'm asking you more experienced refs what you do when you go home at night and know, "Today I did a crummy job"?
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