You must be in TX or MA then.
I don't know NCAA rules, but to get past things like this, the only element I see helping is education.
Fortunately, education comes more than just through experience.
Watch film! Try this site:
http://www.refereeclinic.com/
Watch local games.
Look up the midmocollegerefs channel on YouTube
YouTube - midmocollegerefs's Channel
Participate in local discussions. If there are none, start them.