Anyways, he then jumps on me for calling a borderline pitch by his pitcher a ball, which I have to admit that I kinda froze on because I was surprised his pitcher actually threw something that good. Another problem was, the previous batter maybe had been slightly out of the batter's box when she hit a grand slam, and he jumped on me for that, so I stared at the batter's feet and only saw the pitch out of the corner of my eye...
So the guy jumps on you because the batter
may have been out of the box when she made contact???
Then claims you missed a pitch??
That's easy to answer:
"Coach, I didn't see a strike, so I can't call it... but I can assure you, the batter was in the box"
BTW, she wasn't "slightly" out of the box.... she was or she wasn't....