In last nights game, I think it was a good get in order to keep things from escalating in a chippy series. "No nonsense whatsoever" was the officials stance last night.

In HS I think it all depends...

Did a knucklehead do it?
Have we already spoke with this player?
Would it make the game better to X that?

No absolutes or always when it comes to good GM as every game is different!