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Originally Posted by parepat
AJMC, thank you for being so concerned about my needs..
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Self esteem is really not the issue, parepat, that's something we each have total, and unilateral, control over. Credibility is a different matter, although much has to do with our competency and how we project ourselves, there's a whole other side of it that is determined by our audience, who may at times be totally out of self control.
As always, things may well be different where you are, but where I am, and where I've been, pulling a rule book out for reference during a ball game ( which does not include the halftime break) would be an absolute kiss of death.
Perhaps that's why you don't hear a lot about surgeons pulling our instruction manuals in the operating room with the patient on the table.