Frankly, with the sarcasm and wit I've seen in here, I'm a little surprised that nobody decided to take my post and make me look like an idiot. Apparently I asked the question right
I do understand better now. The studies that have shown it's not a good idea to "fish in someone elses pond" are especially enlightening. I knew there had to be good reasons for this. Thanks.
I think any time you guys can educate a coach, it helps that coach to educate other coaches, and it helps break down the invisible and usually unnecessary barrier to communication and mutual respect.