This sounds like one of those HTBT plays, but Ts aren't warranted only because of what players/coaches say. Their actions can lead to a good T as well.

Her mannerisms lead me to believe that she was complaining about the no call

I wouldn't have told the coach about something that happened in the 1st half which lead to a 2nd half T though. JMO

Coach asks why I "T'ed" her and I explain that she had trash talked earlier