sounds like the 7th grade boys coach I had last week who pulled me aside during an early timeout and asked if my partner and I would watch for the three second violation closely because "we've really been working on our guys getting in and out of the lane a lot this past week and their #33 seems to be spending a lot of time camped in the lane. I wouldn't want my boys to think that we are the only ones that have to do it."
"Sure coach, I understand. In fact, I've told your #24 to get out the lane the last three times down the court, so I'll stop warning either team and just start blowing the whistle. That should get the message across."