UPDATE

Well the "coach" has been issued a summons to appear in court, he will NOT be coaching anymore this season.

I'm still receiving emails in my support from so many concerned parents via JAM.

I'm not looking for a get rich quick settlement, I like to earn mine. So I'm content with him having to be inconvenieced by going to court, paying any fines & losing the role of "coach".

I worked about 10 games since the incident & I believe I got my swagger back last night!! I'm just feeling like such a better person/official for exercising self-control. Afterall, we are held to a higher standard & how can I manage the emotions of 10 players & 2 coaches if I can't manage my own emotions. So I look at it as big test that I passed. I forgive the guy, I also learned a valuable lesson the hard way:
Keep distance between myself when a player/coach/fanatic is upset & headed in my direction!!

I realize that conflict comes with the territory, so I'll learn from it, move on, chalk it up as experience & continue my development. I LOVE THE GAME

Thanks for listening!