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Originally Posted by Bad Zebra
Is that really our role? I can see your point as far as trying to "counsel" a kid as to where his behavior may lead...but I don't think that's our place during a game. By 14, these kids know what is and is not acceptable behavior on the court...further, I think pointing out where it may lead is the coach/parents job.
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BZ....it depends on the level I'm working with. I sit on the Board for a local rec league (grades 3-8) and I also officiate in it. I work a ton of JRHS ball because that's the level I like...I do some summer HS stuff. Our league, the emphasis is on sportsmanship and teaching the kids the game. I agree that at 14 and AAU/Travel...the kids SHOULD know....but that is a whole 'nother story that we could talk hours about (single family homes, absentee fathers).
In short...yes, I feel part of my role as an official, I also look at as an ambassador to the game and teacher of the game for those youth I have in my leagues. I also happen to coach so perhaps I keep a little of each hat on when officiating and dealing with some of these types of situations. I like when the kids show up at the gym and want to know if I'm on their court today....That comes from my efforts both on and off the floor...
I look at it like this..Some of our action/dealings today could help a kid make a school team or get or keep a kid from losing a scholarship later if we handle it right (and not saying a T in the OP's post wouldn't help). I can't give you all the scenarios where I would talk to a kid or just let my T and his coach handle it....For ME...it's a bigger picture thing because I have watched many a player toss away their talent that could have put them in a better position later in life. As I tell some of the HS kids I know who are on Varsity teams..."Use the game, don't let it use you..."
I hope that gives you some insight to me as a person/official/coach and why I'm involved in the game and work the levels I work.