I think that is something you would want to discuss with your partner in pregame and ask them how they want it handled. In the case of profanity, obviously they are gone whether it be male or female, but for simple gender based comments, I would want my partner to determine for herself what would consitute a tossable offense. To put it simply, I am not qualified to judge that.
Now, that's for a regular female partner. If it was my daughter, if the coach even looks funny, he's gone.
