[grunewar]

As a "newer" official I appreciate the senior officials that do it "right". The ones who go over pre-games, look the part, and teach and mentor the rookies, etc. They are calm and helpful - not aloof and condescending, they are patient and instructive, don't roll their eyes or talk behind your back. They talk to you at timeouts and give constructive criticism and points to think about. As you say, "the art officiating" must be learned and experienced....and not all will get it. I have several senior refs I look up to and who mentor me. I hope after many years of experience I eventually turn out like one of the good ones.