Glad we can lend a shoulder.
Not everyone has the same passion for the sport. That's just a fact; some are probably doing for the money, or as a way of getting out of the house. Not everyone has the same talent either, but don't confuse lack of talent with lack of passion. Someone could've learned the "wrong" way of doing things, but that doesn't necessarily mean they don't care. Someone could've had a bad day at work, and they just happen to rather be at home that particular evening.
There could be many different reasons for the way people approach officiating the game. Just continue to let your passion for the game show. Who knows, maybe it'll be contagious.