What Garth said.
Why do guys find the need to fight over the stick? Nearly all my partners and I resolve the position debate by flipping a coin in the dressing room. We respect each other and each other's ability without having to have some junior-high-like bravado show.
Nearly all the guys I know who display the "I'm the man, and the plate is MINE!" attitude in the dressing room are miserable
pr!cks outside it. More than one of them has a FUBAR strike zone to boot.