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well my approach today was something that SDS has suggested to me in a previous thread.
I believe I said that I would say, "Are you arguing balls and strikes?" I do not believe I said anything about, "Are you going to argue balls and strikes?"
I ask a direct question concerning his current behavior, not about what he is going to do in the near future.
"Are you arguing balls and strikes?" Answer: "Yes." Dump him.
"Are you arguing balls and strikes?" Answer: "No." Let him stay, and he really has nowhere to take the argument, as he has just said that he's not arguing. If he starts to argue again, dump him.
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Matthew 15:14, 1 Corinthians 1:23-25
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