I would imagine that the observer would have a little different story than what you typed here. There are usually 3 sides to every story. By what you called the observer (MFWIC), it is obvious that you are a little angry. That anger may be clouding your perception of everything that happened in that game. I think Rainmaker's idea of watching the tape with another observer is a good one.
It sounds to me as if the observer felt that he had no choice but to jump in because the game was completely out of control. Maybe he was even angry with HIMSELF for not jumping in earlier before the fracas started.
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