You know Chuck,
I normally have the same philosophy.
The problem is I was dropped from State Playoffs this year for handling an assistant in this manner. Warning, inappropriate comment,"T". Complaint by losing team that got "T", done with playoffs.
So I think I'm just trying to figure out if I need to change
my way of thinking.
I admit I normally have a quicker trigger than alot of referees.
I think it is as devdog says, I just know what I will take and what I won't.
I've been taught by some pretty good people and I try to
handle things in a similar manner as they would.
I'm always learning and tweeking though.