I think that one of the most important things for rookie refs or youth referees to really stress is appearance. We'll say that if you're a rookie or a young referee-to coaches and players--those are strikes against you. Since you already have those strikes against you, you need to be sure not to get any more very preventable strikes before you even blow your whistle! Make sure you look good. Shirt tucked in and hair combed.... A lot of refs I work elem. rec. games with wear a ref shirt 2x too big, untucked with yellow basketball shorts on and look like they just rolled out of bed. Avoid that!!!!
And more than just what you're wearing, look like you want to be there. Sometimes I think referees want to be dictators rather than participants. Look like you're enjoying yourself and that you want to be there. Even if you aren't enjoying yourself and don't want to be there!
Appearance isn't everything; but it's a start.
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