[RPatrino]

I agree 100% on your thoughts about how to approach a 'discussion' with a coach. Ask questions, don't make statements. I have found that questions don't get you in as much trouble as statements. Simply ask the coach what he saw on the play. That leads to a quick conversation if he really didn't see the play at all.

And those who say that working lower level ball ruins their 'strike zones', I say, get over yourself. If the speed of a pitch changes your zone that drastically, then you don't have a "zone" to begin with. One of my best games last season was a solo JV game, in 100 degree heat. I had the time of my life, my game AND ZONE was locked in. I also experimented with not using an indicator, with no adverse affects.

My advice to those who want to be better umpires, grab those lower level games, and work on your skills in a relatively low pressure environment. Take a rookie under your wing and mentor them. You can actually learn something when you teach.