Just a follow up.
On my way to my game last night I get a call from the offending coach apologizing for his actions. He was very complimentary of me and said, "even though I think you missed the call I never should have acted like that".
Told him that I owe him a beer for the bad call and he owes me $.39 for having to report his tantrum to the state.
We both laughed and all's well that ends well.