CARTER!!!
Bad Boy! Bad Carter!. Now go sit in the corner.
Actually, here's a very important piece of advice. Take Junker's advice and go out to dinner with your wife and a Mentor and his wife. Get your wife on board with your second career. If you have her buy into how much you want to do it. If she will come out with you once in a while and watch you work, you will have a valuable resource. Its one I wish I had cultivated more. But we have 6 kids (hey why do you think she kicked me out and sent me reffing?) so she can't come out that much. She cares about what happens, but without that perspective, its hard for her to comprehend what I mean when I describe that idiot HC from V!@$**$@! HS.
Junker's advice may be one of the best of this whole thread.