Sounds like you handled this well...
An observation that I would like to add:
Do NOT concern yourself w/ team or player foul counts.(However, you do need to be fully aware of when you have reached the bonus, 7th team foul; and super bonus, 10th team foul) Style of play and difference in talent level between teams/players will often create an imbalance. That is a coaching issue. You gotta call (react) to what you see on the court.
Keep learning and having FUN!
