Juulie,
Maybe you could explain it to him. Or I'll try saying it say it slower.
P-a-d-g-e-t-t,
Y-o-u-'-r-e g-o-i-n-g t-o- h-a-v-e t-o l-e-a-r-n t-o s-t-o-p h-o-l-d-i-n-g b-a-c-k.
I hope he gets it. I'll bet he's one of those shy, sensitive, quiet types, right?