Yep. One day its, "Dont take that crap as an umpire!". Next, its "you gotta be tougher than that!"
Now we dont know exactly what 'abuse' was going on in this game, so HTBT prevails.
I think that there has to be a line beyond which an umpire will not go. Some are obvious like personal threats, etc. But if the game becomes unmanagable and the on-site authorities will not take effective action, then the UIC has to be prepared to walk. And not look back.