BZ, BZ, BZ....
You are absolutely correct in saying there were "mistakes" made.
I can't believe you let this bush league Frosh coach b!tch you out the whole game. You are a Varsity Official...you know these lower level coaches are just slightly higher in the food chain than an assitant coach...don't you?
These lower level coaches are used to pushing around lower level officials...you gotta get into the game and show this coach who is really managing this game.
And that, IMO, is where you made your biggest mistake (and I think you know it)...you didn't really want to do the game, so you didn't really get into it. Thus, the problems...you might have just put it on auto pilot and tried to cruise through the game. You were working with a lower level official, and you should know better...you should have worked even harder with this partner. (I mean really...stopping to pick up a ball after the game?)
That'll teach you.
There...do you feel better now...I just beat you up better than you did to yourself.
