Lady....
You need to take a chill pill and drop it.
I find it unbelievable that you've spent as much time as you have seeking out an internet forum for referees, and then venting your spleen over your 9 YEAR OLD'S basketball game - officiated by one person, likely with limited experience, and is just getting their feet wet.
Did they miss some calls - I guarantee they did. Let me ask you this - did your kid's team make all their shots that night?
Get a grip. The time you wasted here could have been spent teaching your daughter about sportsmanship, the spirit of the game, and keeping sports in its proper perspective.