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It's a game
for the kids and fans to enjoy. The referee is there to ensure fair play. I have coached MUCH longer than I have reffed. The coach's shoes carry their own level of pressure, both internal and external (parents, administration, etc.). The bad behavior exhibited by coaches these days seems no worse than those who coached my teams in the late 70s. When I coached, the barbs I threw at refs were RARELY personal, fostered by the competitiveness of myself and the competitive nature of the game. Don't let over zealous coaches bother you. Remember, 1) you are being paid to keep control of the game; 2) it is only a game; 3) You have the power of "T" to reign in any loose-hair coaches and players. Go out, do your best, continue to improve your knowledge of the rules and game, and always keep a cold six-pack in your pickup to slam on the way home.
[Edited by lmeadski on Jan 4th, 2006 at 04:16 PM]
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