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			Chess Ref, 
 
Juulie's list is a good summary - pay particular atttention to items 4, 5 & 6. 
 
You also might want to swing by your local Barnes & Noble and pick up a copy of "Verbal Judo" - some good techniques in there on how to deal with confrontational people. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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