I am a newer official as well, in my third season. I have also worked with a wide array of officiating philosophies. I would say that I am one who does not call it as "tight" as others.
I agree a good pre-game should help, but what is said there, in the pre-game, and what is done on the court can vary widely. You will not really know until you get on the court. You may have seen your "partner" perform previously but our partner may have been influenced by the partner of that game or other "distractions". Each game is unique.
Having said all that, I believe there should be some effort to "match" your partners level (consistency); however, you also need to remain true to your own beliefs. Also note
Communication in the game during "natural breaks" of the game (Time-outs, end of quarter, etc) is essential as well.
Let's see what the old pros say.....
