I was looking at the play - just didn't see a foul
I waited to blow the whistle because his "what the..." question came as the ball was going the other way. I didn't want to take the fast break away from the non-offending team.
As far as tossing the guy...that's where I'm saying I'm still learning. I definitely understand the thought of doing that right away in HS. College same thing? But, in this rec-league I didn't. Not saying I shouldn't have, but I didn't.
Thanks for the responses.