If I find myself being forgetful, I just check the arrow at the table. If they don't have it right, well, it's not my
fault but it is my problem--I'll discuss it with them to make sure they begin to get it right. After this happens once, I'll always check and make sure that the table crew is switching the arrow properly after each AP.
Of course, if there is no arrow at the table, then you line up and punt