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Originally posted by Chris23
We have just started a two game elimination tournament in the 11-12 year old division and i need some advice. Only one umpire is sent to do the games and the games are usually very close and parents almost always get out of control, not violently, they yell and scream, some even use profanity. What can i do to keep order over these games if this was a normal season game i would give a warning to the coach and then if they kept it up I would forfit the game but I was talkin to my head umpire and he told me not to forfit the game, now what other things could i do to control the game.
Chris, the only thing you can do is stop the game and refer to Tournament Director if game is to be forfeited.
Your scenario is a real Big problem in Youth Sports - Parents / Fans Out of Control. In the future, there is going to have to be some real disciplinary rules governing peoples behavior at games. I know of some Tournaments that have a No Tolerance Policy and signs are posted everywhere - if you get out of line - you are removed.
Bottom Line - I would refuse this assignment. We do not umpire just for the money but because we enjoy ourselves and want to improve. However, when fans get out of control, the entire game takes on a negative tone and the game is not enjoyable anymore.
Also, it's just a matter of time before something bad does happen. It's unfortunate because the kids are probably good kids and deserve good umpires, however, their parents make it impossible.
Pete Booth
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