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Old Fri Mar 04, 2005, 05:40pm
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Originally posted by lrpalmer3
I can understand your point, but are you saying that you've given a T for every unsporting act that you've ever noticed?

[Edited by lrpalmer3 on Mar 3rd, 2005 at 06:00 PM]
Generally speaking, the sooner you start penalizing unsporting acts, the sooner they stop....
It's classic adolescent behavior....
The original poster started penalizing unsporting acts very soon, but it didn't stop. In my mind, game management should not be based on what generally happens.

Intramural refs are payed to keep the peace. Coordinators are more than understanding when situations like this take place, but my original post was an attempt to think outside the rule book when it comes to game management.

Is it wrong to ask, what could we have done differently?
Is it wrong? Certainly not. If I had six Ts in one game I'd be here trying to find a better way to handle it as well.

Perhaps I spoke too narrowly. What I probably should have said is, "The sooner you start addressing unsporting acts..." No, a T is not always the best way to address this kind of act. A warning is generally better than a T for a first offense, if you can get away with it. Sometimes an admonition to calm down from somebody who is clearly in control works wonders. Some folks can crack a good joke with offender and it has the desired effect. Sometimes (in a suitably organized contest) a word to the captain or coach is the best way. Sometimes [add your favorite technique here]...

But rarely, in my experience, is overlooking the first offense the best way to handle it. I would agree with you if you were talking about other aspects of the game. Sometimes the best thing you can do to help get a flow going is to pass on a foul or maybe even a violation (depending on the level of play). But unsporting behavior with young men doesn't tend to right itself when left unaddressed.

As far as basing game management on what generally happens, what do you mean? Do you mean how young officials generally manage a game? If so, I agree. Or do you mean that you wouldn't suggest trying what has worked in the past to address new situations? If so, then are probably a better game manager than I. I can't think fast enough to invent a creative, effect new solution every time there is a issue. I tend to go with has worked in the past until it is proven ineffective.

YMMV
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