Juulie - if you feel that what was said might escalate, approach the coach who made the remark and tell him not to address comments to the other coach, and that if he has anything to say to the guy, please wait until after the game and after you leave the court. Tell him that after you leave, you don't care what he does to the guy. Then wink at him and say, "Ya know what I mean?" Wink, wink.
