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Old Tue Jan 04, 2005, 12:28am
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Originally posted by gordon30307
And, hey, it's kinda nice to not worry much about whether what I say is gonna hurt you or not. That's your problem, right?
Told ya. [/B][/QUOTE]

Yea, it felt good in the short run. But for a life-plan, I think I'll give this one a pass. There are a number of people in my life that I really don't want to hurt, regardless of whether it's "their fault" or "my fault". If they don't get hurt in the first place, then our relationship is that much healthier. You can keep the "blame the victim" stuff for your marriage and kids. And when you need someone to pay for your nursing home, you'll always have Bush's great new Social Security plan to fall back on.